The college was made because we couldn't find any pictures of Gary alone smiling. There was always someone beside him. He had the most breath taking blue eyes and a gorgeous smile. I love everything about him and always will. I still can't get over that feeling of being mad at myself for not crying at least once a day for him. So i cry even more the next day.
written Friday December 26th 2009
The same very night that I wrote on her and signed off to go to bed my brother no more than 30 min later go into a car accident on Brady Rd. in Jacksonville, Fl at 1:20am. I was on the phone back and forth with Andrew, Scott and Kelsey for two hours till a police officer finally broke down after i asked if my brother was okay if i could just know where he is. He said to me the hardest things i have ever had to listen to..."i'm sorry but he didn't make it"The worst part is i just thought gary was going to go to jail and get a DUI because Andrew swore that he saw gary walking around. We were coming to see him that morning, living together, buying a house together, going to school together, being with me when i have this baby, being there forever as my best friend. This was so unexpected and unreal. It feels as if I should wake up from this bad nightmare and be playing with Gwyn and Call of Duty with him and then heading to work together at Chili's on Saturday.How is it ever going to be okay? Why did God have to take Gary? Is Gary watching us right now, is he happy? can he feel anything? Did he die in pain or instantly? Did he think of us before he did or how scared he was that he was dying? Did he know how much he was loved and is going to be missed? Why couldn't we have done things differently. I just talked to him at 6 while in target about getting the gokart for mike and nick cleaned, getting them another wheel controller. I wanted to tell him so bad about the baby but i wanted to tell him in person with a hug and kisses.I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU GARY LEEALAN SLONE!! I will always remember you, dream of you and pray for me to see you again one day in heaven. I hope you can help me my journey there. Everyone will miss the crazy fun RUDY!!We went through all the pictures tonight and how much fun we had growing up together. You were always smiling and when you weren't you were trying so hard not to.The hardest part for me is that when i first found out that i was pregnant with gwyn at four and 1/2 weeks Granny died and i was on my way to Ky to her funeral. Three years later i just found out that i'm pregnant again and my poor young full of life brother dies in a stupid unexpected accident. Does someone important to me have to die for another important person in my life to be able to be born? It hurts..if I would have known i would have been so happy with Gwyn and Gary.
The same very night that I wrote on her and signed off to go to bed my brother no more than 30 min later go into a car accident on Brady Rd. in Jacksonville, Fl at 1:20am. I was on the phone back and forth with Andrew, Scott and Kelsey for two hours till a police officer finally broke down after i asked if my brother was okay if i could just know where he is. He said to me the hardest things i have ever had to listen to..."i'm sorry but he didn't make it"The worst part is i just thought gary was going to go to jail and get a DUI because Andrew swore that he saw gary walking around. We were coming to see him that morning, living together, buying a house together, going to school together, being with me when i have this baby, being there forever as my best friend. This was so unexpected and unreal. It feels as if I should wake up from this bad nightmare and be playing with Gwyn and Call of Duty with him and then heading to work together at Chili's on Saturday.How is it ever going to be okay? Why did God have to take Gary? Is Gary watching us right now, is he happy? can he feel anything? Did he die in pain or instantly? Did he think of us before he did or how scared he was that he was dying? Did he know how much he was loved and is going to be missed? Why couldn't we have done things differently. I just talked to him at 6 while in target about getting the gokart for mike and nick cleaned, getting them another wheel controller. I wanted to tell him so bad about the baby but i wanted to tell him in person with a hug and kisses.I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU GARY LEEALAN SLONE!! I will always remember you, dream of you and pray for me to see you again one day in heaven. I hope you can help me my journey there. Everyone will miss the crazy fun RUDY!!We went through all the pictures tonight and how much fun we had growing up together. You were always smiling and when you weren't you were trying so hard not to.The hardest part for me is that when i first found out that i was pregnant with gwyn at four and 1/2 weeks Granny died and i was on my way to Ky to her funeral. Three years later i just found out that i'm pregnant again and my poor young full of life brother dies in a stupid unexpected accident. Does someone important to me have to die for another important person in my life to be able to be born? It hurts..if I would have known i would have been so happy with Gwyn and Gary.
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